There are friends who you think is good, it turns out to have bad intent. Beneath the good attitude, they can keep something hidden.
As quoted from page She Knows, if you feel suspicious about the attitude of a friend, or always negative thinking time with him, you should first identify the four characteristics that you should stay away from friends:
1. Bad influence A good friend should help you grow as a person of good and away from fear and the wrong decision. However, there are friends who make you do things that are not supposed to do or encourage you to take wrong decisions.
There is also a friend who invites you with her foray into negative actions. Friends like this do not deserve is around you. Associating with people who can give good influence for you.
2. Always complaining There are friends who never see the positive side of every situation. If you met her, she always complained. Not only complaint on a case but to everything, from work, family, until about food.
Perhaps the complaints of certain problems can still be tolerated. However, if you continue attacked by a variety of complaints and problems that are not necessary even to exaggerate the problem, it only adds to the mind, frustrating and exhausting your life. In fact, you do not have a chance to talk to him because he never stopped complaining.
If it were so, you should slowly move away from him. Stop receiving the call, because he only wanted to complain that is not important to you.
Self boasting 3.Gemar What he does is always better than you, so that it conveys to you. He thinks you just like its competitors. If you succeed at something, she looked unhappy. If he is successful against something, he'll show off on your excess.
Friendship means pleased with the success of a friend. If you are pleased and happy, good friend will come happily. So if there are friends who are not happy with you, it looks like he's not right for your friend. Even tacitly considered an enemy could be you.
4. Thought he knew everything Some dissenters feel they know everything. They always have never missed an opportunity to brand you are always wrong without showing that they can provide a better way.
Be careful if you have a friend like this. Suggestions, advice, and criticism is necessary for one's progress. However, good advice is not dropping people. Good advice should direct you sincerely thing you should do. He is also willing to listen to your opinion.
If only to criticize it on an ongoing meneruh without directing to something better, instead they are people who get smart and not good for your progress.
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